Tuesday, July 24, 2007

I Have No Words To Describe The Pain

My Jake passed away this morning, of kidney failure.

18 Comments:

At 7:28 PM, Blogger Vickie said...

I am so sorry you have lost Jake. I will share with you what I wrote Walker when he lost his Emme.

We love our animals so much, and it’s so hard to let them go. The loss of any beloved pet has a drastic impact on our lives and is equal to losing a human family member. Losing a little one causes extreme anguish and sorrow. This is a natural reaction when you lose a loved one, whether human or animal; and the stages of mourning are the same. Grievers feel the identical shock and denial, anger and guilt, sorrow and depression.

Yes, it is okay to cry! It’s okay to grieve over your loss. You have the right to grieve because you’ve lost a loyal companion and a best friend. You’ve lost a family member who gave you unconditional love and acceptance. You’ve lost the one who loved you no matter what you did or didn’t do.

Anger and guilt are natural, but you must allow yourself to go through all the reaction stages of death: denial & disbelief, anger, guilt, depression, and finally, acceptance. There is no order to these stages.

Look through the pictures you have of Jake and remember all the love and happy times you shared.

Weep Not for Me

Weep not for me though I am gone into that gentle night.

Grieve if you will, but not for long upon my soul’s sweet flight.

I am at peace, my soul’s at rest

There is no need for tears.

For with your love I was so blessed.

For all those many years.

There is no pain, I suffer not,

The fear now all is gone.

Put now these things out of your thoughts,

In your memory I live on.

Remember not my fight for breath

Remember not the strife.

Please do not dwell upon my death,

But celebrate my life.

Sending you special thoughts and love during this time.

 
At 7:38 PM, Blogger Walker said...

I am so sorry for your loss Chaotic.
Our pets become family more than just pets and we hold them dear to us.
I know where ever he is he is missing you as much as you are him.
I still look at the spot Emme used to occupy next to me thinking she is still there.

 
At 7:04 AM, Blogger Shaz said...

Im so so sorry. Regretfull all too well, your in my thoughts. xx

 
At 4:03 PM, Blogger Jac said...

I am so sorry, Chao !

 
At 11:12 AM, Blogger Monica said...

I'm sorry you lost your Jake, Chaotic. Please take care of you.

 
At 3:32 PM, Anonymous restless angel said...

I'm so, so sorry. They become family members, and it's so very hard when we lose them.

 
At 5:58 PM, Blogger Leslie said...

Such heartbreaking news. I'm so very sorry that you've lost your beloved Jake. The pain is almost unbearable...I've felt it before...and my heart goes out to you.

 
At 12:45 PM, Blogger freddie said...

So sorry! I know it's a true lost, dogs become member of the family!
Pace e Bene
from Rome
freddie

 
At 10:26 PM, Blogger Jac said...

I AM SO SORRY ! I DIDN'T KNOW !!!

 
At 4:15 PM, Blogger mamaof2sweetangelboys said...

I'm visiting from Leslie's (Critter Lover) blog & I wanted to let you know how very sorry I am about Jake. We recently lost our family dog that we'd had for almost 5 years & it honestly is like losing a family member (in my opinion, they ARE family members!). I'm so so sorry~always cherish the time you had w/Jake & all the memories you have together.

When we lost our dog Happy, one of my blogger friends posted a poem on her blog for me & I wanted to share it w/you. While I cried from beginning to end, it was the most sincere, appropriate poem that I could've read. It's called Rainbow Bridge & I hope you enjoy it :) Take care :)

"THE RAINBOW BRIDGE"
Far beyond the sky in another dimension lies a beautiful enchanted land. It is the resting place for all the animals who have served man, many of whom sacrificed their lives to save mankind. To enter this land, the animals cross over the Rainbow Bridge. The Bridge was called so by the angels for its profusion of rainbow-like colors which glow and fade in welcome to the new arrivals.
It is a land of lush green meadows, flowing streams, and an endless variety of trees. There are ponds scattered about for the new arrivals to bathe and wash away all traces of their previous existence. They emerge refreshed after their long journey across the Bridge.
There are myriads of flowers, many growing in vines which criss-cross the branches in the trees. The air is fragrant with their sweet perfumes. Bones and catnip rain intermittently from the air above.
In this magic land, all become young again. The old and infirm run about as they did in their youth. The crippled and maimed are made whole again. The days are spent cavorting across the many fields and enjoying the company of the many varieties of animals here. Most happy, if this can be so, are the dogs and otters who are even more playful here than on earth.
There is but one note of sadness here. It is reflected in the eyes of the animals who were pets of humans who loved them while on earth. If one looks deeply into their eyes, this sadness is seen. They miss that unique love, care, and devotion they received from their own special companion. Many had received more love from their owners than their owners had given to their fellow humans.
And then one day, one special, magic day, your own pet looks up. A familiar sound has reached its ears. Its nose begins to twitch, its ears go up, and its tail begins to wag uncontrollably. It stares, then begins to run toward you.
He knows you have come for him. He takes one great leap and once again is in your arms. Your face is kissed and kissed, and kissed again. You look once more into the trusting, loving eyes of your beloved pet. Together you walk across the Rainbow Bridge, never again to be separated.

PAUL C. DAHM
IBSN 0-9663022-0-6
© 5/9/1981
All Rights Reserved

 
At 5:29 PM, Blogger Nan said...

Where'd you go?

 
At 2:00 PM, Blogger Jac said...

You have to come back.

 
At 1:52 AM, Blogger Walker said...

I don;t know where you are but where ever it is I hope you have a Merry Christmas

 
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